These families residing in the old Lucknow localities have been celebrating the festival since the days of yore. Though the celebrations have become subdued over the years, they still maintain the tradition of joining Hindus in the festivities.
"The old and the young come over to our place on the festival day and exchange colours to mark the festival. We offer them sweets like gujhiyas which are synonymous with Holi ," Nawabzada Syed Masoom Raza of the erstwhile royal family of Avadh told PTI.
"Unlike other places, Lucknow's culture has been guided by the Nawabs who considered both the communities equal," said Raja and cited the story of Nawab Asaf-ud-Daula (1775-1797) who, it is claimed, came out in public in the evening for the festival when it had once coincided with Muharram, the Islamic month of mourning observed with sincerity by the Nawabs who were Shias.
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"Up until the abolition of the Zamidari system, Holi was a grand affair with all friends, irrespective of their faith, collecting at our place and playing with natural colours derived from 'tesu' flowers , sharing lunch and enjoying the cultural show in the evening," Khan said.
Till today the festival is celebrated in his house with dry colours , 'abir' and 'gulal' (scented colours smeared on Holi) but the grandeur is, of course, missing.
For the women, there are fun filled get-togethers in the evening to enjoy the Holi delicacies of gujhiyas, papads , dahi badas among others, Naseema Raza said, adding that the day cannot be over without the Holi dinners in the house of their Hindu friends.
"Preparations are already underway with the white attire worn on the festival day to highlight the colours of Holi being readied and abir and gulal being bought from the markets," she said.
"The new generations of our families too have migrated to bigger cities. Besides the culture around us has also been changing fast under the influence of people from other towns. ..what we see today is very different from the Lucknow in which we had grown up," he said.
Masoom Ali is, however, more optimistic. He says all festivals which give a message of brotherhood, camaraderie and a chance to even those who have been forced to tread wrong path to come together, will continue to have a place in the society.