The 'Teenage Dream' singer, who was married to funnyman Russell Brand and dated John Mayer, said as she prepares for her 30s, she's determined to find the perfect guy, reported Contactmusic.
"What I've learned is that if you don't have the foundation of self-love first, you really have nowhere to pull love from to give it away. I had to learn about taking care of myself before I could take care of others. I want to mommy everyone. I want to take care of them. I want to save them, and I forget myself in the meantime. I learned that through therapy.