S P Vaid, who had recently warned the militants against targeting the families of policemen, said police personnel had "stood between the bullets and the family" of the militant, who was eventually killed.
"Such a humane approach should not be misconstrued as our weakness. I will ensure welfare of every personnel in my force and such incidents will be dealt with an iron hand.
The Director General of Police said terrorists were feeling the heat for the last two months as they were being "tracked and trapped".
He said militants were being given the option to surrender and those who fell in line were taken to jail, but those who did not faced consequences.
"That was the most unfortunate incident to have happened. Maybe the terrorists are feeling the heat and simply following orders from across the border.
"But little do they realise that they too have families in the Valley. We have always adopted a humane approach towards their families and my officers have gone and met some of them to request their kins to surrender," he said.
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