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Introducing 'lawnmower parents' who pre-empt child's possible problems

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ANI Melbourne

A new breed of over involved role models is "lawnmower parents," who clear a path for their child before they even take a step by mowing down obstacles in their child's way.

Behaviour experts and authors of 'Selfish, Scared and Stupid' Kieran Flanagan and Dan Gregory said that lawnmower mums and dad are out there smoothing the way for their kids, giving them a soft, even surface to move forward on.

According to Primary to High School transition specialist Jenny Atkinson, during primary school years, lawnmower parents may take on a more aggressive style, like pushing their child's agenda ahead of other children or trying to have consequences for their child's actions reduced or dismissed.

 

Atkinson added that during teenage years, lawnmower parents can reach a level of control that is very stifling for their teens, who can become resentful about being so micromanaged and like to "do it their own way."

Atkinson further added that being a lawnmower parent is very draining as there can be a constant pressure to make everything right and be vigilant in looking out for obstacles.

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First Published: Oct 12 2014 | 4:54 PM IST

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