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My children aren't my slaves, property: Will Smith

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Actor Will Smith says he does not treat his children as slaves or his property but considers them as independent.

Will raises two kids - Jaden and Willow - with wife Jada Pinkett. He is also father to son Trey, 20, from a previous relationship, reported Us magazine.

"My style of parenting is very similar to that of my parents, minus the concept of ownership. I think that, specifically in African American households, the idea coming out of slavery, there's a concept of your children being property and that was a major part that Jada and I released with our kids.
 

"We respect our children the way we would respect any other person. Things like cleaning up their room. You would never tell a full-grown adult to clean their room, so we don't tell our kids to clean their rooms," the 44-year-old said.

Instead, the parents frame the chore to their children in a different way.

"We tell our kids 'you don't have a room, that's our room and we are letting you borrow it,'" he explains. "So the same way you would say to an adult if you let them use your car, you say, 'Yo man, clean my car! Don't drive around all filthy like that!' And it's perfectly reasonable for you to want an adult to clean your car, so we feel it's perfectly reasonable to ask our kids to clean the rooms that we are letting them use.

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First Published: May 23 2013 | 12:25 PM IST

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